Today I wanted to share in spite of Valentines Day, to talk about the kind of love the sticks that necessarily shouldn't.
It could be a friend that you care for that doesn't demonstrate the same values or ambitions as you (nor even in a positive way)
Or it could be a lover whom you can barely carry a conversation with. Or a mistress that you wish you didn't accidentally fall in love with and then sleep with.
What do I say when these things come into play without a proper explanation? Shit happens man. Love comes in all forms and unfortunately we are attracted to those who are not necessarily good for our well being and I am speaking way beyond the "bad boy" intentions. I am talking about having good intentions and falling for the wrong guy or loving a friend that simply doesn't deserve your friendship.
If anyone figures this beast out, please let me know. Sometimes there are no explanations for these things, and it is hard as hell to step away when you truly care for someone.
What do you do?
I could say just walk away, but is it that simple? Was it meant to be? or was it meant to be learned to value yourself first?
If this person is causing more harm than good, I would say walk away (or run!) But in life things are not just black and white. As friend once told me, go with your gut! or wait it out, let your feelings sort themselves out because maybe you do not know what you want.
Now thats some food for thought. I hope you do not go have to go through sticky situations such as the inappropriate love here that I am talking about.
Take care of yourselves ladies and gents! Don't forget to watch 50 Shades of grey XOXO
Lady Swag Mafia
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