Sad but true statement!
When everyone has grown up and moved on with their lives you have to stop and start handling your own shit instead of depending on others to give you that moral support. Yes you have friends and family that love you BUT there not going to give you a cookie when you accomplish your goals or give you a hug every time you feel lonely. Yes they do sometimes.
Take me for instance, I live in a completely different state from most of my family and friends. The reason for this was by personal preference and by getting the chance to land on my own two feet. YES I have ultimately done that but its a lonely road to getting to know people who care enough to be like how are you doing today and have a GENUINE interest.
Yes its a bit too depressing to talk about but once you pass the age of 22 no one cares. When you finish college, your roommates will no longer be there to give you moral support nor your new boss that you have to consistently prove yourself towards. Living alone, your mother nor family will not call you if you do not call them. (especially parents). Yes there are people in your life that care, perhaps boyfriend, but at the end of your relationship, those cutsey couple's photos that you oh so loved so much... will end up in a trash can somewhere. Unless you end up marrying the guy which can also lead to a messy divorce.
Post college depression is a serious matter amongst a few other tid bits. Anywho you have to realize that once you get to a certain stage of your life, people will just be in your life not really IN TUNE with your emotional state. People don't like to hear you bitch so much or act like a sensitive child even though that secretly you have no one to talk to those things about and you end up word vomiting out when you've had too many glasses of wine one night. (which everyone should let out every once in a while, perhaps lay off the wine though)
YOU have to get off of your ass and go to work everyday and be grateful that you have that job. That you put a smile on your face and help others in the process. That you are cheery when you hear the slightest form of happy news for you or others around you. Or have the time of your life every time when you dance to your favorite songs. Life is to be lived and lived happily.
Don't let anyone decide your happiness other than yourself. If others are jealous or handling their own demons let them go. Let them be assholes to other people, don't let these people suck you into a black hole of despair unless you both are venting for a good cause. Theres no better way to bitch and gossip when your doing it with a friend!
Do what you gotta do to be happy
— Grant Bryant (@GrantMBryant) January 20, 2015
Case and point. Do you! Get your shit together and people will commend your consistency in being a genuine happiness for yourself. No one will ever have it all perfect but at least you are making strides to make it happen for you. If you cannot run, walk, if you cannot walk, crawl towards progress!
reason to be happy: mac and cheese
— Alan Garner (@AIanHangover) January 20, 2015
Be Happy :)
- Lady Swag Mafia
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