Through out this journey I have found these things:
- Sometimes being an asshole to friends make them respect you more, sometimes it just makes you an asshole (if you cross the line ofcourse)
- Asshole moves are not the same as betraying your friends!! Please take note of that. For example making a joke when your friend drives his car into a ditch SOBER is a pretty much asshole move BUT sleeping with your friend's ex or current boyfriend is plain fucked up.
- Learn to let go and move on. As much as I talked about moving on, it is in actuality harder than it looks. You don't want to move on because you don't know any other way, the thought of new circumstances frighten you or you are plain lazy to make changes in your life. Mine are about all of the above... basically
- Once you do let go, it makes life a bit easier even in the same situation. Take for instance you wanted a friend of yours to be your best friend, but the other person did not really act the same way that you did about the situation... like answer your texts in a timely manner or open up like you normally do..... Once you let go of the fact that he or she may not care enough to be your best friend just move on and meet new people. Granted we are still going to act like best friends when hammered but its not the same thing in the day to day life ...sober.
- Do not chase people, chase goals!! So now learning about that particular fact. People will reach out when they need to, things happen for a reason. What will not happen is succeeding at your goals if you do not attempt to go for them! In the end no one has your back.... like you do.
- Do not give up! Even at an age where we have all the information at our fingertips I know how hard it may be to make a decision and go for it. Just do it and whatever happens happens. The worst thing could be that you learn from the action and move on.
- We are alot stronger than we think. Just trust yourself and be comfortable in your own skin.. Twerk if you want to.
- Stay loyal to the people that were loyal to you. Take a look at all of the people that were there for you. If you happen to have planned a birthday party in a snow storm, take a look around at who showed up for you. That means they are willing to face the cold, possibly a car accident or do anything to be there for you. Give them hella props, fuck the rest who didn't.
- If you don't know about a particular topic that bothers you, get off your ass and learn about it. Like for example I felt extremely uncomfortable doing a booty pop ( i don't know the actual name for the dance move) in my dance class, mostly because I didn't know how. I basically youtubed that shit and practiced! The week after that I was way more comfortable granted I wasn't 100% at it compared to all of the boricuas in the room but the more you know at ANYTHING the more comfortable you are taking actions.
- Tom Brady is fioneeee (very hot), and Katy Perry had a tasteful performance at the super bowl halftime
Anywho these are my current life lessons learned at the moment. I hope this serves as some sort of inspiration towards your life situations!!
Yeap thats the booty pop I was talking about!
xoxo
Lady Swag Mafia
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