I am the type of person that is extremely hard to hide my feelings towards people so new friends ultimately suck balls. You have to be charming and "play it cool" so your not completely seen as a weird stacker chick.
Like how many months does it really take to be a complete honest asshole back to your friend?! The key to all of my problems. lol.
Things that you need your poker face on while chatting with a new friend:
- do not comment negatively on their clothes
- do not show you care when they take forever to answer your texts !!
- do not punch the new friend when they defend other people instead of defending you when your involved in the particular situation
- when they are too proud to open up about particular things you think are a bit odd about their life or the choices they make
So if this is happening to you, just play it cool and move on! Thinking about it and writing it down makes it does seem like this new friend of mine is a complete asshole but any who that just goes to show that I need to increase my efforts in making other girl friends that are just as open and sensitive as I am. When she sees that I have other plans and my life is moving forward hopefully she realizes she should not take me for granted. I guess theres a chase in friendship as well, even though I wished I didn't have to deal with this bullshit with boys and friends.
Its really interesting because I am normally the one being chased so into being put into this situation is especially frustrating in my position. What should I do? I think I may just hold my tongue for a while but still gain efforts in making new friends with other personalities that can relate to who I am.
No offense new friend, your awesome or else I wouldn't have wanted you as a friend but your also an asshole and I completely hate how loyal I am to people.
If you are in this particular situation, just take a step back and stop putting your attention to this issue and be completely polite! Soon enough we will find out if their worth your time or not. Take things slow and things will eventually reveal themselves.
Not being able to make old jokes with new friends because you know they won't get it and you'll sound stupid.
#NewFriendProblems
— LiLo (@lil_LiteBright) June 22, 2012
I wonder if you got my text. But I don't wanna piss you off or come off annoying by asking or resending it. #newfriendproblems
— Raven Hall (@xfourtwentybaby) January 1, 2012
And I know....
NEW FRIENDSHIPS SUCK
We ladies need to stick together!
Lady Swag Mafia
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